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What do you want your kids to take away from this school year? Focus on student’s strengths, interests, and passions and FINISH STRONG!

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(Re)Claiming Your Moment of WHY!

As educators, we all have a mission of inspiring our students to find their why. Yes, we all focus  on content, but the real journey is about helping each and every one of our students to navigate  their own journey in life: their why.  

Core content is great and has its value and purpose, of course, but the real mission: guiding our  students in understanding how they learn, how they engage with one another in the world, and to  find their superpowers as humans – their WHY!  

How do we define our WHY? A Moment, A Second, A Minute, A Day, A Person, A Conversation.  We have moments every day that shape our lives. Whether we have noticed them, whether we  have accepted them, whether we have engaged them to be part of our lives: they exist. How we  choose to receive these moments is the way they can and will make an impact on our WHY.  These are rare times in life, these are the moments that become our Moments of WHY. These  give us our purpose. 

Our BIG why! As educators our moments of why can define our entire life  in the classroom. The WHY we choose to interact with our scholars. The WHY we choose to  engage within our classroom. The WHY we choose the school where we work. Each of us has THAT moment.  

But what about OUR why? And what do you do if your Moment of WHY has escaped you? What happens when we sometimes hit a period where we get derailed, we get lost, we forget our  WHY.  

The school year is a funny thing, a crazy creature that has its warm and fuzzy parts and it’s not  so warm and fuzzy parts. Those warm and fuzzy parts hit us first thing in August/September and  June! The not so warm and not so fuzzy? That usually hits us in November, February, and our  dreaded testing season – the toughest times of the school year (not sure why) and that time of  the year when we seriously forget or question our WHY. And during a Magical Unicorn Year? It  can hit at any moment.  

Writer’s note: A Magical Unicorn Year is one that you thought you’d never see. I choose to think  of this past year as a Magical Unicorn Year. Filled with the unknown. Filled with things that I  thought I would never see in my career. I call it this because it helps me keep my WHY. And now  that I have seen the unicorn and shared this…you will see it, also, and be forced into being a  believer in the magic of that you never knew was possible within yourself!  

I was recently reflecting on the following two questions:  

1. What is the new story of your life, the one that is starting to unfold now, the one that  feels most alive and vital?  

2. What needs to happen within you for people to be able to connect with your spirit’s gifts  and talents so you can do more of what you love? 

When all of a sudden that ingenious light bulb POPPED off in my head. How could I really reflect  on these questions without the proper tools…but what were those tools? I know that I have  access to amazing tools for my students but what about me? Why didn’t I go through the same  journey to find my WHY (or reclaim it) like I guide my students?  

And then the light bulb burned a little brighter and hotter.  

I do that with the same tools. I opened my Thrively account and headed to my dashboard page and  the assessments. I quietly sat down and gave myself the time to reflectively go through each of  the assessments. Even the questions that are written from a ‘student’ perspective…I gave it my honest, reflective go, applying it to my life as an educator and not as a student, and it still held value.  

I discovered that I am a Creative Thinker and Master Storyteller. I have strengths, Verbal,  Assertiveness, Worldly, Creative Thinking and Memory (I debate that last one…insert laugh  here)  

I am Picture Smart, visualizing the physical in artistic design. I am Nature Smart with a competent  understanding of the natural world. I am Logic Smart with competence in understanding of  cause and effect, and the relationship of actions, objects, and ideas.  

I have Habits of Mind that include Creating, Imaging, and Innovating. I can Apply Past  Knowledge. I have a Precision of Language of Thought.  

The time I devoted to journeying through these three assessments gave me a bunch of information  about myself that I had not known or had lost.  

In essence, I reclaimed my WHY. 

The tools are there, I knew this, but I just thought of them as tools for my students. Not me. But  I now know I was not thinking about everyone in my classroom. I forgot to think of myself as a  learner.  

The power of this is 2-fold. I reclaimed my WHY but more importantly I discovered all the ways  that I interact in the learning, how I interact in my classroom, and how I interact with my  students.  

I found an even more powerful WHY than I had known.  

Yes, the Magical Unicorn Year is upon us. Let’s harness that Unicorn and ride it! Being our very  best version of ourselves. Claiming or Reclaiming our WHY! 

As a parting gift I leave you with this, to reflect on the information you’ll get from the  assessments in Thrively:  

The poet Rumi talks about falling back in love with mystery and says, “We must become  ignorant of what we have been taught and be instead bewildered.” How are you simply  mysteriously present? How does a force you can’t understand – in a world of infinite  beauty – drive your passions?

About the Author Jamie Ewing is a Thrively EdInnovator, Elementary STEM/Science Educator New York City DOE,  2019 Microsoft Innovative Educator, 2020 SpheroHero, Prezi Board of Advisors -Education, 2019 LittleBits BitStar, 2015 Henry Ford Innovative Teacher of the Year, 2014 MOHAI Teacher of the Year, 2013 Academy for Arts and Science National Innovative Teacher of the Year, NSTA Outstanding Science Text Committee 2016-2019, NSTA Nominations Committee

Start with The Heart First

Community is everything. If you’re not convinced of that by now–in April 2021–principal Elias Villa and instructional coach Nicole Lalumiere-Weaving will make you think again. For these Weaver Middle School educators, it didn’t take a global pandemic to understand that everything must be built on a foundation of trust that is bolstered by evidence of care and concern. While this is always a work in progress for these educators, creating a thriving community is at the core of every decision they make.

Weaver is located in a rural community in Merced, California, which is part of a swath of agricultural land known as the world’s breadbasket. This diverse community is growing and Villa and Lalumiere-Weaving are poised to ensure that its diverse population of learners, 85% of whom are socio-economically disadvantaged, have every opportunity to grow and learn in a deeply caring community. 

As devoted as educators are to their students, Weaver leaves nothing to chance. “We are explicit about what we mean by a ‘culture of care.’ We have a group of caring educators, committed to meeting the needs of every student. We know that many of our families are facing challenges and our students will absorb the heightened anxiety.”

One of the driving strategies at Weaver is restorative practices. Every educator is learning how to facilitate conversations that offer students a chance to share what is happening in their lives in a safe and supportive community. Students are learning to articulate their emotions while building empathy for one another–the same is true for the adults in the room. 

“Our staff is not just learning about restorative practices, but they are using the strategies themselves. This is how we build community amongst ourselves. We’ve started book studies that deepen our understanding of a topic, then we get in a circle, just as our students do, and we talk. We bond. We learn how it feels to get vulnerable. At Weaver, we don’t ask our students to do anything that we haven’t done ourselves,” explains Villa. 

“We allow kids to have a space to talk and to hear each other. They will talk differently in a circle than they will on the playground. They need a safe space to have an opportunity to hear one another. We want everyone to know what it feels like to be in the company of good humans. This is a place where kids have respect for one another and most teachers seem happier. Our teachers model what a positive and respectful conversation looks and sounds like,” says Villa. 

“Connection before content is our guiding principle, shares Lalumiere-Weaving. We know that teachers are overwhelmed and kids have a whole new world to navigate. There’s a lot to do. So, we want everyone to trust that not only is it okay but it’s essential that you can show up as a human first. Trust that you have time to do the tasks that need to get done. Start with the heart first. The more heart, the more purpose and meaning,” she adds. 

“We give teachers permission to take time each day to make those personal connections. One of our goals is to continue to increase attendance. School has to be a place where kids want to go. A place they feel cared for–where someone is really listening, where they feel heard and seen. School should always feel like a comfortable place where our students want to be. When students connect with the adults, they want to do more work,” says Villa. 

Weaver Middle School is part of the “Schools to Watch” network, which is a program of the Institute for Excellence in Education (IEE). This national network provides an opportunity for schools to grow and share best practices as well as a supportive place to share challenges. As Lalumiere-Weaving points out, “The cool thing is that being recognized as a School to Watch is not an end point, it’s a beginning point. The message is: ‘We like what you’re doing and we want to join you and follow your journey.’”

One of the areas of focus for Weaver is engendering goals and future orientation among students. At the foundation of this is “Seeing that every kid is a person of worth and dignity and allowing them to make choices,” explains Lalumiere-Weaving. “Often, as adults, we want to control what is happening; we try to avoid that temptation and instead create an environment where choice is not only available but encouraged.” 

“In Homeroom, students reflect on their learning and take charge of what they need to do to grow. They write their own plan of action. This goal setting and reflection builds learner agency. Thrively has really helped students feel that they’re a part of the school. Our kids get to know themselves, which has been crucial for all that we do, from goal setting, to restorative practices. Our students have become much more self-aware and reflective, and our teacher uses this information to help students become more empowered learners,” explains Villa. 

Student empowerment is supported by several outlets for exploration in the arts and sciences. The award-winning band and the drama department, which sells out the annual Disney musical every year, are community treasures that highlight the persistence and drive of Weaver’s young performers. Students who do not find their passion in music or theater are encouraged to find their passion in sports, the Greek Olympics, and in hands-on science and math. Lalumiere-Weaving explains, “Our teachers are so passionate about their subjects that they have created a place where kids feel like it’s cool to learn new things. In English, the theme was window and mirrors–‘what are you reflecting to others and what are you seeing in another person’s world?’”

“We’re never just going to teach students and give them a quiz. We ask questions and provide the space to think about them, in writing and out loud. Think, talk, listen, triangulate who they are as they relate to others. Interactive conversations help students search for understanding and meaning. Our teachers have thoughtful, meaningful discussions that center on ideas that are relevant to their students and, in turn, students search for answers to big questions,” shares Lalumiere-Weaving. 

“Teachers want to be authentic, but they need a roadmap. We spend a lot of time recognizing one another’s contributions, listening to one another to seek understanding. We don’t have one approach for our students and another for our educators. Everyone is treated with respect and dignity. We are always in a constant state of growth and this can only be achieved with support in a nurturing environment that places a culture of care as a top priority for the entire community,” emphasizes Villa.  

Weaver is making great strides, but Villa and Lalumiere-Weaving emphasize that there is ample room to grow and to learn. Weaver educators are striving together to create a culture that reflects their shared values and goals and each day is a testament to that pursuit. Every child has a genius and they deserve to thrive!

Human Potential is Limitless

Human Potential is Limitless. We know this to be true. We know it because we feel a surge of adrenaline that covers our bodies in goosebumps when watching humans attempt the seemingly impossible. We root for the underdog because we know what it feels like to be a David up against a Goliath, and, when we prevail, we get a nice ride along the dopamine superhighway–and it feels good. What if you never felt those goosebumps or that dopamine surge? What if it were easier to wear off the jagged edges of high expectations for yourself and live safely? What if experience told you that it made more sense to hide than to proclaim: This is me! This is me, and I am trying! 

What fosters this sense of agency and positive learning identity that allows for such emphatic proclamations? At the core, it is the relationship that teachers have with their students. When students don’t just feel but have evidence of being known and valued they feel safe, and safety is the nutrient-rich soil from which all robust and healthy growth emerges. As with any relationship, interactions have to be rooted in true interest and concern and they have to be reciprocal–human being to human being, rather than keeper of knowledge to seeker of knowledge. 

Years ago, when I was a teacher in a Title 1 school in Los Angeles, my go-to strategy was Shared Inquiry. What I discovered was that my role wasn’t to guide my students to achieve a particular understanding of a text, but to grow their curiosity through my authentic curiosity about their perspective. I would encourage them to share where their ideas had come from and to say more, delve more deeply. With each inquiry, a student’s confidence would grow. It was magic, and it was so simple: All I had to do was make the time to ask. Not so easy though, right?

So much is expected of our educators today because we know so much more about everything from neuroscience to the long-term effects of trauma. Each child brings a range of experiences to the classroom. What can teachers do when they carry large rosters or serve students with wildly varying needs? Consider for a moment Dr. Edith Eger’s question: “How do you spell love?” It’s a four-letter word, she reminds us. Ready? “It’s spelled t-i-m-e,” she says. How do teachers find time in a day that requires so much of them? With the 1,500 decisions that teachers make a day, where do they find the time to authentically inquire, build meaningful relationships, and engender trust? 

Teachers, by the very nature of their work, have become models of efficiency. Watch your colleagues standing at the physical or virtual door, taking the time to look in each person’s eyes and welcome them. Teachers who use collaboration interfaces like Thrively might note how a group member brought a new idea to the team. “Something Miguel said yesterday inspired me to share this article with your group.” Or, “I was curious about an idea that Jazmine shared and I wanted to ask the group to explore that today.” These interactions only take a moment, but they are evidence of care, concern and genuine interest, which are all essential elements of trust. 

A culture of trust provides a solid foundation upon which all learning is built. Imagine a space where a student knows that she can be vulnerable, make wild hypotheses, color outside the lines figuratively and literally, push boundaries, feel those goosebumps that attend exploring the unknown, feel her pulse quicken, and get the dopamine surge that comes when her curiosity is encouraged. 

We can create a place of limitless possibility when we make the time ignite our own sense of wonderment and awe about the humans sitting right in front of us. What are their strengths, what are their dreams and aspirations, what makes them laugh, what makes them think? Everyone deserves to feel the excitement of discovery and who better to build that launch pad than a trusted teacher?


Jane Patterson – Senior Vice President, Customer Success, Thrively

I am a first-generation college graduate. Reared by self-educated intellectuals and “pull yourself up by your bootstraps” entrepreneurs, I have learned that intrinsic motivation is the key to personal fulfillment. What motivates us? What inspires us? What piques our curiosity? What moves us? I attribute my success in life to my mother and my 4th and 5th-grade teacher, Gene Howard. Mr. Howard knew that social-emotional growth underpinned current and future success. He encouraged me, saw the best in me, and was the person I could rely upon in turbulent times. Gene Howard would be proud—but not surprised—that a girl from challenging circumstances earned her undergraduate degree and doctorate from UCLA and joined Thrively to spread this message: Every child enters the world full of promise and brings their intrinsic strengths to the conversation. I join Thrively with gratitude and a clear vision of what is possible for our young people and for our collective future.